There is a series on TV right now called Dirty John, the show is based on a true story about a woman who has fallen for a psychopath. No one especially her children liked him and when they found out who he really was she dismissed it and refused to believe anything about him accusing them of being jealous or thinking he was after her money.
I tell you this story because I can’t begin to tell you how many come to me regarding their relationship and if I tell them that person, man or woman isn’t good, they ignore the advice refuse to believe it and move forward with the relationship. It is sad how often the advice from the souls is spot on and being ignored.
Some want it to work so bad and ignore the souls they stay in denial until such a point they can no longer ignore the truth. When I give them what I hear and it is what I am being told, they don’t want to hear or believe what I tell them, I turn into the bad guy and I lose the client. No matter what I refuse to tell my clients what they want to hear I stay with the messages from the souls.
One strong example of this was my client Joan who wanted to know about Paul, a man she had been seeing, Joan attempted to control the conversation by telling me what a great family man Paul is, she told me I should see him with his nephews. Joan was certain she was going to have a lasting relationship with Paul. I stuck with the souls who told me Paul was really bad. When I conveyed this to Joan, she at that point admitted Paul had done time twice for very serious crimes.
She continued asking me questions about him, again, attempting to control the conversation. Finally, to prove me wrong she pushed Paul about getting more serious. It was It was at this point Paul admitted to Joan he is seeing Three other women besides her and he was “pretty much” (I’m not sure what that means) using here. Joan blew up, threw him out of her life and told him to never come back into her life.
About a week later Joan calls me to ask if Paul will come back into her life. I told her no, the same message I had been getting all along. She really didn’t like that message and refused to accept it. As a matter of fact, Joan kept asking the same questions about Paul and refused to believe the messages. When I told her, her souls would no longer address her relationship with Paul, as they always do if you keep rejecting their messages, she got very angry.
She insisted I gave her conflicting messages. I did not, she heard the messages as conflicting, she told me I told her she would have a relationship with Paul and it would be wonderful. No, what I told her was, she would have a relationship with him if she pushed but it would never be what she wanted. What she heard, you will have a wonderful relationship with him someday. I had to finally tell her to not come back to me because she became verbally abusive and attacked me on every level.
She got upset that I wouldn’t entertain her or her souls any longer, but when it turns to be abusive and refusing to accept what you are being told I need to walk away. I have no idea if Paul ever came back into her life or not, I get “The Feeling” he never did. She went from recommending me to bad mouthing me, I will have to live with that and overcome it if I can.
Now you know why I resist working on relationships, I am sure I have had some success with them but I just can’t remember. The point to all this is I can’t find you a boyfriend or find your keys for that matter.