This happens every so often, although not that often; I get maybe two a year. When it does, it is counterproductive. This is what I am talking about.
Not too long ago, I was doing sessions at a small party, with six clients, which is my preferred number, but I will take up to eight at times. They sat with me individually for thirty minutes each. The first four who came in received amazing messages; according to them, they were extremely happy. Then in walks Denise, she asked if she could record our session so she could show her husband. I reluctantly agreed. I allow it, but I find it distracting. We start, and I have a man, and a woman come in. I describe them to her. I heard Mom, so I asked her if the woman I saw was her mother. She said no, they sounded like he in-laws. I asked Denise if she was very close to her, mother–in–law, as that is often the reason they say mom. They tell me what the relationship was like; she told me they were. Then the man began to talk about his son, her husband. He told me they were very close and told me things they did together. I asked if that made sense, and she said yes. At this point, the session seemed to be going well.
After giving her messages from them, I had another man come in saying Dad, I told her that and asked if her dad was passed. She said yes. I described his and her relationship with him. She said it sounded like him, but it could be someone else. This soul kept telling me about what they did together. At this point, I’m sure it was him, or someone like a dad to her, but she kept saying it could be him; she isn’t sure. I asked him if he was someone else, and he told me no, and there is no one else. I asked her if she had someone else who was like a dad to her, knowing what I just got. She said not that she knew of. The next one in was her mother. I described her to Denise and told her, her mother said they had a difficult relationship. She agreed with that, however, as I went on, she disagreed with it. She was becoming difficult with the souls who they were, denying what they were saying, yet it was a strong movie. As the next few who came in, she couldn’t confirm or deny who they were or what they told me.
When I have a client who isn’t getting what I’m telling them and the movie is strong, it becomes difficult for me, and I stop telling my client what I am getting.
It was at this point that I was going to end the session, but the souls wanted me to continue. We moved on to her life here, including her work life. I told her that being at work is like a long day, not hours, but it seemed long; she agreed with that. I told her she was having issues and was very unhappy; she told me she was very happy, but I questioned her on that as I didn’t believe what she was saying. I told her she moved to another place, but she said no. Once she said that, I stopped giving her messages. I was convinced she was lying to me, so there was no reason to go on. At the end, she turned off the video and deleted it, it, was clear she was angry and said that the session didn’t work and left the room.
The next clients came in my confidence was shaken. I didn’t think I could get messages for her after my session with Denise, but she received great messages and was very happy.
When I was finished, I went outside to say goodbye and thank them for seeing me. They were laughing and asked me how my session went with Denise. They knew what happened; she complained to them that she got nothing. I told them what she got, and they all worked with her and told me everything I said was right on. When I told them about the video, I was told her husband couldn’t care less about what she was doing and wouldn’t be interested in the video. They told me she was looking for another man who didn’t come through. I have no control over that, but she turned me off and shut me down by playing games, denying and agreeing as to who was there and the messages.
Had Denise not been denying and agreeing with everything I said, the man she was looking for would have come through. If he didn’t, I would have asked her to give me a first name only, I always ask that, and the souls always come through. The point is, don’t think that denying what I give you it will bring the person you want to hear from through. It’s just the opposite. Why do the souls sometimes wait to be asked for, it could be one of many reasons. They may have wanted the other to speak first, or they may think you didn’t want to hear from them for whatever reason, or they like, the attention of being asked for.
Don’t play games with the souls through me; it never works out well. Always be hopeful, never be hopeless… Always be optimistic, never Pessimistic.