I am often asked if I communicate with pets. Like here pets do not verbally communicate with us once they cross over. Pets stay around us; I figured this out when one day while working on one of my books I felt what I thought was my current dog pressing his head on my leg. I looked down and there was nothing there. That was the first time I realized that dogs stay with us here, another sign is a living pet will look around or get playful for no reason they see things we can’t. However, this video is about a client John, who had two Brittaney Spaniels. After the second one passed, that was enough for John he refused to get any more dogs. He told me he couldn’t take the pain the end of their life brought. John couldn’t see how much joy they brought for thirteen-plus years from being puppies to getting older. He projected how they would get old and pass. We will also do that when a partner passes, we will not want to connect with someone else. I know there are several other reasons, but some do not want to go through the pain of losing someone else. I get all that and can understand how someone will feel that way, however, that is no way to live your life. By projecting how several years down the road we will go through something like it again, you are missing out on so much. Don’t deprive yourself, of the many years a pet will bring you. It’s tough I know, but you must learn to enjoy your life every day, live in the moment. If having a pet brings you joy get another one do what’s right for you but never deprive yourself of a happy life. Don’t look into the future so far you fear what will happen. no one knows what the future holds for us. Make the most of every day, you will never regret doing that. Live in today by doing what’s right for you never fear death although death is the ending of your life with that pet or person, it’s a new life for them, all that they may have been struggling with here is gone.