I don’t often hear names but I was doing a group session when I heard, Jimmy. I asked the group if Jimmy meant anything to anyone. Everyone in the room said no, a moment later Susan who was sitting on my right said it meant something to her.
Now, when I hear a name it’s like a breeze blowing through the room, it isn’t a soul saying it. I asked Susan if the person was here or passed, she said he is here. I said to her, “It’s your son.” She confirmed it was her son. I heard the soul telling me her son had been pulled away from the family by a partner, a woman. That was confirmed, it also came out that he was always close to Susan and her husband.
What was happening was that his wife’s family was taking control of Jimmy, manipulating him to turn his back on his family. I was told Jimmy was having issues with the separation and that he would return to the family. It will take some time but don’t give up. This is becoming an issue with kids between the ages of, 35 to 40. It occurs with boys mostly.
If this is happening to you I know it is painful, but you can’t push them to come back. You have to let them come back on their own. If they don’t you need to adjust to this new reality as painful as it is. Make you life as good as you can, focus on everyone who is still there for you.