My client Joanne, asked me, when our session finished, if she would find a man, a relationship. She told me she’s been unlucky when it comes to relationships. I will get that question from time to time. As in the title of my second book, ” I Can’t Find You A Boyfriend, or Your Keys”, I try not to do relationships. I have found especially when I was a cop, that, many people listen to what they are being told by someone who is dressed to the nine’s, which also has a place in convincing, the mark they are good and truthful. I call this the con man effect. They fall for the line they are being fed and allow themselves to get into a relationship, which you will, more often than not regret. You must watch their actions not just listen to their words. As smooth as they think they are they will inadvertently give themselves away. Sadly, once you are in the relationship, it may take years before realizing what you have gotten yourself into and will have to work hard to unravel it. The point is, never want anything so badly you’re not willing to walk away from it or be blinded by that desire. Take your time, get to know everyone in your life and look deeply into who they are not what you want them to be. Have confidence in yourself know you deserve a good relationship because of who you are, respect yourself, be yourself and never let anyone take control over you.