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Brenda lost her son Ronnie in a house fire in 2015 it was her house. A friend connected Brenda to me without saying anything more then Brenda lost her house to a house fire and she lost everything.

At one point in the video Brenda mentions how I was questioning myself at the time I saw her and what purpose I serve, I had completely forgotten about that. I was in a bad place very bad place. However, when I saw what Brenda received and how it helped her, I realized what I do helps others. Brenda’s session was as important to me as it was to her. It was because of our session I am still doing this. I was planning to quit this after I met her.

Brenda reminded me after the video was shot that when we first spoke on the phone, I described her living room and that was spot on. It was that phone call which let her know I was real and not someone looking to take advantage of her.

Brenda’s husband joined us after the video, It wasn’t a session but I was receiving messages. Ronnie was with me but his two grandfathers came through to make an appearance letting me know they are with him as well. It was just a short session. During that mini session Ronnie showed me a video of him doing summersaults in the backyard. Brenda & Brian just looked at each other, Brian told me that video is still on Brenda’s phone.

I told Brenda that Ronnie is proud of her because she is beginning to move through things a little better. Ronnie gave the both of them healing messages, he showed me how his dad was handling this whole thing which was surprising to me and a think Brenda as well.

I have offered Brenda many support sessions which she doesn’t take me up on, but today it came to light that family members feel as though she is making it about her, nothing could be further from the truth. They both avoid holidays with the extended family because they didn’t want to bring them down. It was clear to me the family just wanted to be there for them nothing more but misunderstood why they didn’t want to go.

We should never assume how someone is processing their loss even if you have been there. All people are not the same and handle things differently. It best for all we do not judge others in this life unless you are living in their skin, that will never happen so don’t judge anyone.

I do not do this for myself to bring attention to myself. I do it because this is my calling and what I have been chosen to do.

Bob Buchanan

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